MY REFLECTION
There are stories that come from imagination and then there are stories that come from truths you can’t ignore. Sorry A Million Times was the latter.
This wasn’t just a story about love. It was about the choices we make inside of it. The ones that look right on the outside but feel a little harder to explain when you’re living them. It was about the quiet battles, the repeated forgiveness, and the moments where walking away feels heavier than staying.
Writing this book challenged me to sit with uncomfortable questions about loyalty, about self-worth, and about what it really means to hold on to someone who keeps giving you reasons to let go.
Because the truth is, love isn’t always the safest place to live. Sometimes it stretches you. Sometimes it breaks you. And sometimes, it teaches you lessons you didn’t ask to learn.
But within all of that (within the mistakes, the hope, the denial, and the growth) is where the real story lives.
My hope is that readers don’t just see themselves in these pages, but that they reflect on their own hearts. On the relationships that have shaped them, the ones that have tested them, and the kind of love they truly deserve.
Because at the end of it all, the question isn’t just who we love…
It’s how much of ourselves we’re willing to lose in the process.
And more importantly…when do we finally decide we’ve lost enough?
JUST CURIOUS...
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Have you ever stayed somewhere longer than you should have, hoping things would change? Why?
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Is it harder to let go of a person or the version of them you fell in love with?
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Can love truly survive repeated betrayal, or does it just learn how to exist around it?
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Do apologies lose meaning after a certain point or do we choose to keep believing them?
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Have you ever mistaken familiarity for love?
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Is loyalty still loyalty if it’s one-sided?
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Are you holding onto someone because of who they are…or because of what you’ve been through together?
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Is staying always a sign of strength or can it sometimes be fear in disguise?