Right Person. Wrong Time.

Raw Chapter No. 010

Which is why I think its true that you can meet the right person at the wrong time.

Maybe nothing happened.

No cheating. No lying. No betrayal.

Its just that you both came across each other at a time in your life that you weren't able to provide what that relationship needed.

One of you may of been healing. Maybe one of you was creating your life and didn't know how to fit someone into it yet. Or maybe you both wanted the same thing but just not at the same time.

When that happens and you break up with that person you have something to deal with that is even harder then being mad...its potential.

You think that if you met them five years down the road things would of been different. You were older. They were older. Things wouldn't have been as hectic.

But I wonder if timing really plays a role in someone being your right person. How can they be your right person if you have to change our circumstances to make it work?

Someone can be everything you want and still not be able to provide it for you. That doesn't mean your love for each other wasn't real. Doesn't mean that you weren't in love. It just means that sometimes we can be in love with someone that isn't right for us at that time.

I think that's why we can't let go of some people.

There wasn't enough bad about them to leave them. They just weren't enough good at the same time to stay.

So what's the difference between someone being your right person and someone being your right person for your life? Its simple. One they're just the right person. They could be someone that fits all the qualities of being your right person but they may not be right for your life. Your life requires them to be that and more at the same time. Your right person should also be your right person for your life. A person can't be your right person if they're not going to be there when you need them.

So I think you can meet someone at the wrong time that is your right person. But I'm not sure if I would call them your right person.

Just your right person for that time.

☕ Now I want to hear from you.

Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time—or does the wrong timing mean they were never the right person?

Until next time ☕🤎