Stop Falling in Love With Who They Could Be

Raw Chapter No. 009

Why potential can be harmful in a relationship.

Not that there's anything wrong with having faith in another person.

It's just that at some point we begin to overlook what they do day in and day out. And focus on what they COULD be.

We start to imagine all these things.

They'll be an amazing boyfriend once they open up and communicate better.

She'll be my ideal woman if she gets over her ex.

Things will change when they take the relationship more seriously. Get off their phone. Tell the truth. Overcome there trauma. Grow as a person etc.

IF

If is a powerful word. It can hold you in a place for years.

You begin to decide things based on what you think the relationship will be. Not what it currently is.

There's nothing wrong with trying to see the best in people.

At some point you need to question if your in love with that person or the idea of who they can become.

Potential.

That's what shows you what someone CAN be.

Their pattern is what they ARE.

☕ Now I want to hear from you.

Did you ever fall for someone's potential instead of who they were?

Until next time ☕🤎